Choose to do Something for the Good of Others

By Laura S., Big Sister, University of Pennsylvania, Class of 2008

Being a Big has truly changed my college experience for the better. Going to CPA every week is such a welcome escape from Penn. Penn can feel like such a bubble sometimes, and knowing that I have a purpose off campus helps to remind me that there is a world outside of Penn. Seeing my Little Brianna’s smile when I arrive at her afterschool program makes me forget about all the homework, papers, and tests that I have waiting for me back at my house. The hour I spend with her running around the playground, tackling computer games, or painting pictures is one of the most relaxing, fun hours of my week. It’s so refreshing to be around a little girl who wants to talk about four square and spelling tests rather than job applications and LSATs. I wouldn’t trade my hour with Brianna for anything.

Being a mentor for a young girl and realizing the impact that I’ve had on her life, has made me reevaluate what I want to do after I graduate. I really feel as if I have made a difference in Brianna’s life, and knowing that is so fulfilling. Whatever job I end up having after I graduate, I know that I want it to directly affect others in a positive way. Brianna has learned a lot from me, but at the same time I have learned so much from her, and I feel as though my own life, as well as the lives of people in need, will be better off if I choose to do something for the good of others.